When You Explore These Inter-Family Peace Facts You Will Love Peace between Families
10th May 2021
The article “Inter-Family Peace” is designed to guide you in understanding the concept of peace among families, the methods to achieve and sustain it, and its significance in enhancing the social fabric of a community. Let’s delve deeper into this topic.
WHAT IS INTER-FAMILY PEACE?
Inter-Family Peace refers to harmony between two or more families, whereas Family Peace, or intra-family peace, pertains to harmony within a single family. Currently, our focus is on peace among families, which entails the absence of violence or disputes between them.
Such peace can cascade to higher societal levels. Envision peace among all families within a clan; this would result in peace throughout the clan. Extending this further, if every clan were at peace, it would translate to tranquility within the sub-tribe or even the entire tribe.
However, humans often grapple with internal conflicts, leading to personal, interpersonal, and familial strife, which can escalate to discord between families. This brings us to a crucial inquiry: how can we cultivate peace among multiple families?
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HOW DO WE FIND AN INTER-FAMILY PEACE?
In any society, the quest for peace among families is a noble endeavor. Just as peaceful individuals within a family can foster harmony, so too can they promote peace among multiple families. Conversely, just as there are aggressive individuals in every family, conflict can arise at any societal level, including within families.
In the past, our villages had numerous methods to cultivate peace among families. One such method was through traditional leadership; people held their elders in high esteem and adhered to their counsel. However, times have changed.
Another method was the fear of spiritual repercussions, such as curses and witchcraft, which compelled people to follow the elders’ guidance or risk the wrath of malevolent spirits that brought misfortune. With the advent of Islam and Christianity, these old beliefs have become history.
Does this mean modern methods of maintaining peace within and outside families are nonexistent? The answer is complex. While there are contemporary approaches to fostering peace among families, they often struggle to make a significant impact in communities because they are perceived as foreign.
HOW DO WE MAINTAIN AN INTER-FAMILY PEACE?
Maintaining peace between families is a crucial issue, and there are various legitimate methods that can be employed to achieve this. These methods span both modern and ancient practices.
The ancient approach was both spiritual and secular, with the latter being less distinct in those times in Africa. Life was perceived as inherently spiritual, which led to the widespread acceptance of Islam and Christianity, along with their beliefs, doctrines, teachings, and the continuation of traditional practices.
Finding peace within our families mirrors the process of maintaining it. Historically, leadership was instrumental in both establishing and preserving peace. It was customary for individuals from different families to resolve conflicts on their own, without interference, even if it resulted in defeat for one party. This practice helped to avert broader family feuds.
Today, we rely on religious scriptures and foreign education to sustain peace. However, these may not align with the traditional African context. The reverence once held for spiritual entities has waned, leading to moral lapses that can incite conflicts among individuals or families.
Excessive freedom can ultimately lead to a form of bondage. The question remains: should we revert to the old ways of life, and would such a return be universally accepted within our communities?
WHAT’S THE IMPORTANCE OF AN INTER-FAMILY PEACE?
There are numerous reasons why peace between two families is essential. Peace is beneficial because its absence leads to conflict, which results in the loss of lives and property. Conversely, peace fosters harmony and prosperity. An Arabic proverb states, “The fearful mother raises her children,” reflecting a positive outlook.
Fear of destruction and harm has often been an effective means to prevent and resolve family conflicts. Shared interests can sometimes bring about global peace. For instance, consider the possibility of trading oil with Americans; this could incentivize them to assist in maintaining peace within a country to access its resources.
Peace is inherently positive, while conflict is negative. However, both are inevitable aspects of human existence. We may not be able to completely avoid them, but we can strive to uphold peace and harmony as they represent core values in every society, achievable through countless methods.
MY FINAL WORDS
We have now reached the conclusion of this article on Inter-Family Peace, which also encompasses clan peace if families constitute a clan in your society. Families, whether related by blood or not, are still families and should coexist in peace, love, and harmony.
In closing, I offer you this wisdom: you possess the keys to your own peace. This personal peace may or may not extend to family and inter-family relations. Your responsibility is to be a beacon of peace and leave the outcome to unfold. If others choose violence, it does not compel you to mirror their actions. You are unique. Strive to live peacefully with everyone to the best of your ability.
I trust that this article on Inter-Family Peace has been beneficial to you. I invite you to share your reflections in the comments section below. Your feedback is invaluable for enhancing this post and future ones. May God bless you and ensure your safety during and beyond the pandemic. Peace be with you!
FURTHER READINGS
Intra-Family Conflict—IRDP post