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“Theism versus Atheism” is an article designed to assist you in exploring your true self in terms of beliefs, preferences, and aversions. It is intended for both theists and atheists to understand where their perspectives converge and diverge. With this in mind, let us examine these two contrasting viewpoints in greater detail below.

Theism: What It Is, And Why It Is Important

A theist is an individual who believes in the existence of a God or gods, whereas an atheist does not hold a belief in a God or gods. Therefore, theism refers to the belief or doctrine that a God or gods exist. For theists, the belief in God is as crucial as life itself, signifying that life has a purpose that transcends human existence, with God as the creator of life. They believe that God governs everything in this world, encompassing both good and evil.

For a theist, there are:

• God and Satan
• Angels and demons
• Good and evil
• Life and death
• Heaven and hell
• Eternal life and eternal death
• Truth and lies
• Right and wrong
• Spirits and souls

A believer understands that life has a purpose, which calls for living responsibly even during our earthly existence. They hold the view that our deeds are noted and that we will ultimately be held accountable for our thoughts, words, and actions.

Furthermore, a believer perceives God as benevolent and compassionate, acknowledging that God offers forgiveness when we repent or acknowledge our wrongdoings.

In essence, a believer maintains hope in God, convinced that life is not random but preconceived by a higher intelligence. According to this belief, God was aware of our destined birth and death, including the reasons, long before our existence.

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No human knows the time of their birth or the moment of their death. A believer accepts that they don’t, and can’t, know all the answers to life’s questions, yet they trust in a God who is all-knowing.

For a theist, consciousness is considered supernatural. Life extends beyond the physical realm. The mind transcends brain activity and is seen as a spiritual entity. The brain is merely a physical receiver, a piece of hardware, which interprets signals and instructions from the mind, akin to software. A believer understands that to know everything in this world, one would have to be God, or a god.

This does not imply that a believer should abandon all efforts in their pursuit of knowledge. Instead, it means recognizing the existence of the Creator, who understands all things beyond human comprehension. For believers, God is the cornerstone of life and all its aspects. The hierarchy places God first as the Creator, followed by His creation.

Believers perceive creation in two realms: the physical and the spiritual. The spiritual realm is perceptible only to the inner vision, which includes the mind, soul, and spirit. The physical realm, on the other hand, is observable to our human eyes, though some aspects remain unseen.

THEISM PROS

• Having a sense of personal purpose
• Hope for a better future
• A reason for life
• Love for God and oneself
• Love for other people
• Love for the rest of God’s creatures

THEISM CONS

• Illogical in human thinking
• Abstract knowledge
• Foolishness to others
• Vanity and baseless hopes

Atheism: What It Is, And Why It Is Important

On the other hand, atheism is defined as a belief, or rather a lack of belief, in the existence of God or gods. However, the concept of “lack of belief” in something one does not believe in is not applicable. Belief is binary; one either believes or does not. Not all atheists share the same beliefs. Some are unsure, indifferent, or find it impossible to know whether a God or gods exist.

Others are convinced that there is no God, which is a fundamental aspect of atheism: the absence of belief in any deity. The prefix “a-” in “atheist” signifies “without,” thus, an atheist is someone without a belief in God or gods. Therefore, atheism is a complete belief system, in contrast to theism, which is the belief in the existence of God or gods.

A friend of mine recently remarked, “If there is no Satan and no demons, then there is no God and no angels,” and I believe he had a point. For an atheist, life may seem to be nothing more than chance. Without a creator or evolution, life lacks inherent meaning or purpose. My explanations, particularly regarding atheism, might be biased, but if you’re an atheist, perhaps you could offer a better explanation in the comments section below.

For an atheist, life carries no responsibility if there’s no afterlife, as it implies no accountability. In the absence of a deity or deities, concepts of heaven or hell are irrelevant. Consequently, there is neither the prospect of eternal life nor eternal damnation.

Life, seen as a product of chance, leaves no standard for discerning right from wrong, or good from evil. To an unbeliever, life may seem utterly devoid of meaning. An atheist might argue that the brain and mind are one and the same; without a functioning brain, there is no mind, and thus no existence beyond the physical realm.

Upon death, one is simply dead. For an atheist, there is no enduring soul or spirit. The concept of an afterlife does not exist. If this belief holds true, it suggests life has no purpose, rendering existence meaningless and futile if there is no continuation beyond death. But the question remains, is this indeed the case?

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For an atheist, there are no:

• God and Satan
• Angels and demons
• Good and evil
• Life and death
• Heaven and hell
• Eternal life and eternal death
• Truth and lies
• Right and wrong
• Spirits and souls

An atheist may believe that life inherently lacks meaning, echoing the sentiments of the author of Ecclesiastes. This book questions whether the soul of an animal ascends to heaven or descends to hell, challenging common religious beliefs about animal souls. Many faiths teach that animals, unlike humans, do not possess spirits that would allow them to enter heaven.

For atheists, unanswered questions may suggest that earthly life lacks inherent meaning or purpose. Without meaning or purpose, the concept of God or gods might be seen as human constructs, products of imagination, or wishful thinking. In this view, religious texts like the Bible and the Quran are considered by some to be among the greatest works of fiction, written to convince people of the reality of their narratives, which are seen as purely imaginative.

Atheism Pros

• Use of Personal freedom
• Use of logic
• No indoctrination
• Use of personal time

ATHEISM CONS

• Self-defined morality
• Lack of personal destiny
• Lack of motivation and resilience
• Lack of belonging and traditions
• Being condemned by religious groups
• Lack of correct judgment

You Have Personal Choice

After considering the two contrasting perspectives, it’s time to decide which one resonates more and why. I hold the belief in the existence of a God and gods, identifying as a theist rather than an atheist. Thus, my viewpoint aligns with theism, not atheism. The vastness of the physical world itself serves as evidence for the existence of a divine cause, God.

For an atheist, however, the existence of evil on earth may suggest that life is devoid of meaning, or that there is no God, or if there is, then He is either impotent or indifferent to the suffering of His creations. This is a form of human reasoning that seems logical to us, but its accuracy is debatable.

Believers argue that evil entered this world due to human sin, beginning when Satan tempted our ancestors in the Garden of Eden. Yet, if the narratives found in the Bible, the Quran, and other religious texts are mere fiction, then our belief in their reality would be misguided. What is your stance?

See also: Theism—Wikipedia

My Advice

My suggestion is to delve deeply into your own heart and determine where you feel you belong. While I can’t compel you to think as I do, you have the capacity to think in your own way. Discover the reasons behind your belief or disbelief in a deity. Feel free to share your reasons for believing in the existence of a God or gods, or for your conviction that there are no such beings, in the comments section below. Thank you for reading.

“4 Keys to True Inner Personal Peace” is an article drawing on my personal self-improvement insights that could assist you in enhancing your self-perception. We inhabit a world where the predominant news is negative—deadly, bloody, and frightening, akin to the realms of movies and fantasy. Indeed, the world has become as the Bible prophesied. Genuine peace is scarce worldwide.

The literature we consume is replete with themes of violence, assault, crime, horror, and mortality. As we are shaped by what we read, nourishing our spiritual and mental selves in this manner.

With this in mind, let’s explore these 4 Keys to True Inner Personal Peace, which might enable you to cultivate a personal haven of tranquility amidst global turmoil and strife.

Key #1: Understand the Root Causes of Conflict

Peace is often defined as the absence of violence, conflict, and disturbances that threaten our well-being. It can also signify prosperity, success, and stability.

Yet, the inner peace we refer to is not merely the lack of trouble or conflict. It is the capacity to avoid conflict or maintain a sense of serenity amidst life’s turmoil and chaos.

To achieve such authentic inner peace, one must comprehend certain truths. It is essential to recognize the fundamental cause of all conflicts in the world: SIN.

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We might believe that others are the root cause of conflicts, but a deeper reflection is necessary. Consider this: all humans are inherently flawed, which the Bible refers to as sin (Romans 3:21).

Comprehending human nature helps us grasp the reasons behind their initiation of conflicts, whether conscious or not.

This understanding doesn’t require us to condone every word or deed directed at us. Instead, it allows us to discern the motives behind others’ thoughts, words, and actions. They are, after all, only human, flawed at their core.

Yet, humans are more than their flaws; they are cherished by their Creator. God cares for every individual, fully aware of each one’s purpose in life.

What is the purpose for those who are born and then pass away within hours, days, weeks, or years? It’s hard to discern if there’s a divine intention for their brief presence in this world. However, it’s possible that their parents might gain valuable insights from the heartbreaking experience of losing a child.

Understanding humans as they truly are can place us in a stronger position to either forgive them following a conflict or to prevent conflicts altogether in various ways.

Preventing conflict is the most effective method of managing it, even though some individuals seem naturally inclined towards causing trouble. As the saying goes, prevention is better than cure, and this is particularly true for conflict prevention.

Key #2: Avoid Conflict Whenever Possible

Understanding humans as flawed yet cherished by God, we should strive to avoid conflicts with anyone, related or not.

The Apostle Paul advised that we do our utmost to live peacefully with all, acknowledging the challenge this presents when others may not share the same desire for peace.

For instance, if you dislike noise and your neighbor revels in it, finding harmony can be difficult. Extroverts and talkative individuals often find joy in noise, which may disrupt your tranquility.

To prevent conflict, you might tolerate the noise, seek a resolution, consider relocating, request a volume reduction from your neighbor, or suggest they play music when you’re not home. The goal is to find the best way to minimize conflict wherever feasible.

Key #3: Negotiate For a Solution

The third key to achieving true inner peace is to seek a resolution through negotiation when conflict cannot be avoided for the various important reasons previously mentioned.

We are focusing on personal peace, which entails person-to-person negotiation as a means to resolve internal conflicts.

Revisiting the earlier noise example, one proposed solution was to engage in peaceful negotiation with your noise-making neighbor to achieve conflict resolution.

Remember, negotiation is distinct from argumentation. Arguing may incite further external conflict rather than resolving the internal one. This occurs because each party believes their perspective is valid, yet it’s impossible for all to be correct when opinions on the issue diverge.

Aim to negotiate a resolution to the conflict, rather than to prove who is right. The goal is not to win, but to find a way to prevent future conflicts or to resolve existing ones.

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Negotiation comes next after finding the possible root causes of any kind of conflict.

Key #4: Forgive the Wrongdoer

Ultimately, consider forgiving the wrongdoer and forgetting the incident for good. This becomes feasible if you find a compelling reason to forgive and forget, such as the understanding that no one is perfect. You, too, might make similar mistakes in the future.

You may have caused someone more pain than you believe they caused you, and that’s part of being human. Forgiving others is essential, and it starts with you because it’s within your power. Whether others choose to forgive you is up to them. You are in charge of your own thoughts, words, and deeds, just as they are of theirs. It’s acknowledged that forgiving can be difficult or seem impossible, but letting go is often the healthier choice.

Holding onto the painful words and actions of others can bind us. However, choosing to let go sets us free, demonstrating the power of forgiveness. Indeed, it’s easier said than done, but it is achievable. I forgive others because I understand that to err is human. They may not acknowledge their wrongdoings, but I have the power to declare it over.

Remember, love is the key to genuine inner peace. It enables us to comprehend the underlying causes of conflicts, to prevent them, to seek lasting resolutions, and to learn to forgive and forget the wrongs others have inflicted upon us. This newfound forgiveness fosters love and unity among former adversaries. I hope you find this perspective beneficial. If so, please share your thoughts by commenting below. If not, I would appreciate your feedback on your views.

Further Reading

• What Is True Wisdom?—The Moorings.

Individualism vs Collectivism Views is an article meant to help us choose a balance between the two current world views with their pros and cons. Look, individualism is no longer a Western worldview. Just as the world is now viewed as a global village, every concept is also global.

What is individualism?

Individualism is “the habit or principle of being independent and self-reliant.” ~ Oxford Languages(1). Individualism is a belief system that focuses on the person’s development and well-being rather than the community or collaborative development. Well, we can ask a lot of questions.

For example, is Brazil collectivist or individualist? What are those collectivist vs individualistic countries? Can we find information related to collectivism vs individualism by country? What’s the difference between collectivist vs individualistic cultures?

We can go on and on. But let’s talk about development again. This development may be in materials or immaterial things, such as personal spiritual growth, mental, or any other abstract development.

Individualism has its history, traditions, doctrines, teachings, and practices. It’s an international idea now, not a localised thing as it was. So, naturally, individualism existed in more diminutive amounts all over the world for many centuries past.

The West (Europe & America) has been known to be the home of the individualistic culture, though this was never the case in the past. Humans used to live as communities with community priorities until sometimes later in human history, when individual interests preceded that of the community.

Capitalism is still part of the individualism or individualistic worldview and culture. The idea of individual and intellectual property rights is a branch of individualism worldview and thoughts and ideologies. For example, self-discovery is an individualist idea, and so does self-improvement. Self-esteem, self-education, and self-development are all individualistic ideas.

Things like working hard for oneself, planning, goal setting, and execution of personal plans are all part of the individualism worldview and its practices. For example, in the West, it has been and is still a culture for each individual to have both short-term and long-term goals, but this is not the case in Africa.

Individualism Pros

Here are a few pros of having an individualistic view of life.

• Personal freedom
• Personal achievements
• Personal awards for certain accomplishments
• Learning new things
• Life enjoyment
• Personal focus
• Influencing others

Individualism is also known as biocentrism. People with many of these personal ideologies are mostly vulnerable to negative emotions, social issues, hopelessness, depression, and even thinking of committing suicide.

Individualism Cons

Here are a few cons of having an individualistic view of life.

• Little to no social support networks
• Issues with emotional compliance/resilience
• Lower option to seek advice or help from other sources or people
• Weak or poor mental health
• No sacrificing or group work supported
• Meaningless life
• Time misused or wasted
• Too much freedom
• Selfishness/self-centredness

In Africa, individualism is seen as selfishness at best. This might be the same in Asian countries even at the time of this writing. But the West is different. For example, in a US-based university, each student may be required to do her academic work without assistance from her friend, who might know better than she does.

In the West, helping a friend succeed academically would possibly violate academic rules and regulations. But, in Africa, that would be seen as selfish if one can’t help a friend, even academically. In Africa, it isn’t cheating to leak an answer to a student friend, but the opposite is true in the West. Do you see the differences?

Now let’s move on.

What is collectivism?

Collectivism is “the practice or principle of prioritising a group over each individual in it.” ~ Oxford Languages (2). Collectivism is a belief system that focuses on collective views, traditions, doctrines, teachings, and practices. It is the opposite of the individualism system discussed above.

Having a collectivistic view of life means one doesn’t measure the personal side of things, such as personal identity, success, fame, etc. Rather, they focus much on improving a group, mainly a community’s success.

As we have said earlier, collectivism is seen as selflessness in Africa. At the same time, individualism is considered selfishness in Africa and Asia until recently when individualism ideologies spread, spilling over to Africa and other parts of the world, mostly silently and unknowingly.

Today, individualism ideologies are mixed with collectivist ideologies everywhere in the world. Even in Africa, especially within the developed(ing) countries, individualism is the culture of the day, and those who practice much are African youngsters.

This means even those who believe in individualism may not know they believe in it simply because they think this is life. They don’t know anything about the collectivist views, or they may see those views as primitive or evil at worst.

Collectivism pros

We may just say that the collectivism pros are the individualism cons, but let’s see a few of these pros below.

• Selflessness and willingness to help others in a group
• The accomplishment of collective goals
• Supporting other members of a group
• Peacefulness in a group
• Stability of a whole group
• Love and unity in a group

These are just a few pros and I believe there are more.

Collectivism cons

• Lack of personal pursuits and goals
• No personal ideologies
• Everyone faces the same troubles
• Fear of new changes
• Encourages laziness

Others may still argue that these cons may also be influenced by individualism or individualistic ideologies and culture. Each group views each set of cons in these opposite worldviews differently. For those who live collective lives, everything in this world looks perfect, and so do those who live in the individualistic world.

Now, where are you?

Where are you leaning?

I want to let you know where I belong by nature. It’s both nature and nurture for us to be either individualistic or collectivistic, and we can’t deny these facts. But, look, we are who we are because of what we inherited from our biological parents or relatives (nature/physical) and how we were raised (nurture/environmental). So the environment is a massive factor in making us who we are, individually and collectively.

I even think, speak, write and act the way I do here because of nature and nurture. And because I was born here in Africa, I can’t be that individualistic 100%. But, as I have mentioned above, I am both an individualistic and a collectivistic person simultaneously. Still, I lean more toward being collectivistic, just because of nature’s and nurture’s effects on my personal life.

Oh, listen, reading and speaking in English only brings individualistic views into one’s life. For us who have been reading and speaking in English for years, there is no doubt we are somehow individualistic in some measure. Even the books in this article are meant to help you personally and professionally; that’s individualism in action.

Look, I admire self-discovery and self-improvement, which is why in the first place, I wrote these posts and articles for people like you to read. I am a mixture of both individualism and collectivist ideologies, so I advise you to be in the middle, not excessively leaning to the other end, just because of the pros and cons of each of these worldviews.

Now, what does the Bible teach? The Bible is more collectivistic than you might think. The Bible encourages polygamy more than you think. The Bible encourages teamwork, group success, and fame more than individual praise and selfishness.

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But selflessness is a task that is difficult for everyone to achieve. Why? This is because it requires work, hard work. So I think we all need a balance.

A balance is needed

At the end of this article, Individualism vs Collectivism, we must conclude that we need some balance between the two world views. But this also might have been an individualism concept as well. Humans are naturally selfish, but we humans have also learned that there is what is called good and evil. We also can do or not do certain things if we only decide to or not to. We can’t change our natures, but we can discover and improve them.

Look, we need to love teamwork and then work together whenever needed, and we can successfully do this without denying or neglecting our visions and pursuits. We have to work for personal goals without ignoring group goals as well.

Too much individualism leads to depression and even suicide at the end of it all. Then too much collectivism leads to the death of individual identity and self-worth. Of course, we all deserve to be acknowledged for our outstanding achievements, but that doesn’t mean we have to be selfish, even to live alone and die alone.

I have heard that in the West, children have to leave their parents as soon as they are 18. In Africa in general, and in South Sudan in particular, that’s lawlessness and selfishness at best. But I have to understand that living in urban cities is not so easy.

So this condition leads people to marry just one wife in a lifetime. This is why I may not understand youngsters who studied somewhere in East Africa or the Western world, simply because they fully appreciate the individualistic side of thinking and living best. Still, I have something little from both worlds. Indeed, there is a gap regarding individualism vs collectivism worldviews.

I hope Individualism vs Collectivism as an article has been helpful to you, personally. If so, please leave a comment below. God bless you!

“10 Best Self-Discovery Tips” is an article designed to elevate your journey of self-discovery. These tips are not mandates to follow but are established methods to aid in uncovering your natural self. In line with my usual writings on self-discovery, it is crucial to acknowledge that humans cannot recreate or alter their inherent nature, regardless of their desires or efforts.

Therefore, the most effective approach to enhance your life, as supported by recent studies, is to understand who you are before attempting self-improvement. So, what are these top ten self-discovery tips applicable to everyone? Why are they universal? And why are they considered the best? Let’s delve in!

Tip #1: What Is God’s View of You?

Our self-perception is often clouded by our own errors and the incorrect judgments of others, leading us to overlook our inherent goodness.

The initial step in the top ten self-discovery strategies is to discern what God perceives in you, or your identity in His eyes. This inquiry does not necessitate religious belief, as religion and God are distinct concepts. God remains constant, while religion represents our individual interpretations of Him.

Understanding God’s perspective of you is crucial for self-realization and embracing your true nature, including your preferences and aversions. But how can one ascertain God’s thoughts?

Begin by reading the Bible or any book you hold in high regard, and attempt to relate its teachings to your life. This exercise can offer a broad understanding of your divine identity. Embark on this journey to uncover your essence in the eyes of God.

In my view, I am a child of God (John 1:12-13), the world is mine to inherit (1 Corinthians 3:21), and I have the strength to do all things as per His divine plan for my life on earth (Philippians 4:13). Consider if this resonates with you. It’s important to note that this isn’t about religious indoctrination; it’s an acknowledgment that every person is a child of God, whom He loves and nurtures.

For some, this perspective might suggest that I am not genuinely a born-again Christian, especially if I believe God loves everyone. However, I am at peace with this because I am confident in my faith as a born-again Christian. This belief doesn’t confine God to Christianity or any religion.

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I believe that every human, animal, and creature is loved and cared for by God. Often, we don’t perceive this love due to various reasons. We are shaped by what we read, watch, and experience. The world is replete with suffering, including natural disasters, which, according to my Bible, stem from sin. These experiences are part of our journey of self-discovery. But what does God say about you?

Tip #2: What Do You Think of You?

Beyond God’s perfect perception of you, your own view of yourself holds significant importance. You might hear an inner voice shaping your self-concept, which could be accurate or not. Consider this: you are indeed a complex assembly of chemicals, but is that the entirety of your essence?

Psychologically, humans are categorized as introverts or extroverts, yet nearly everyone exhibits traits of both at various times. Thus, being labeled as one or the other doesn’t encapsulate your entire identity. Reflect on your preferences and aversions for a moment. Indeed, these inclinations reveal something meaningful and potentially profound about you.

Tip #3: What Are Other People’s Views of You?

Understanding how others perceive you is as important as your self-perception. The opinions of others may not always be accurate, but since they observe you from an external viewpoint, their perspectives can offer insights into aspects of yourself that you may not have considered.

Often, people close to you, like your parents and siblings, might envision you in a profession they admire, such as a medical doctor, even if it doesn’t align with your true calling.

Your personality type is intricately connected to your roles or careers in various ways, and it’s not uncommon for people to conflate the two. However, your identity encompasses your careers. While you might excel in multiple careers throughout your life, your personality type remains a distinct and crucial element of who you are.

People know me as Pastor John, and they associate me with peace, love, and kindness. They see in me courage and hope, and they perceive life radiating from me at all times. But do I view myself in the same light? One’s thoughts are often reflected in their words and actions, allowing those close to them to discern or get an inkling of their true nature.

Nevertheless, it’s not always wise to depend entirely on the perceptions of others, because, as I’ve mentioned before, they can be mistaken. The ‘Others’ I refer to include your family, friends, colleagues, and even neighbors—those who have known you beyond the realms of Facebook or Twitter.

Tip #4: What Are Your Personality Traits?

Understanding your personality traits is vital as they are closely linked to your career and identity. Reflect on whether you feel more energized in a small or large group, or if group settings leave you drained and less enthusiastic. Consider your feelings about introducing yourself in a meeting.

As previously stated, we display characteristics of both introversion and extroversion, yet we are often labeled by our more dominant trait. For example, if crowds deplete your energy, you might be more introverted. This is a fundamental part of our nature, something to accept and comprehend, not to change.

I lean more towards introversion, though I possess qualities of both. I enjoy discussing topics that interest me, such as Digital Marketing, Self-Publishing, Life Coaching, and Technology. I’m eager to comment, clarify, or contribute to these subjects when prompted.

However, I sometimes experience shyness, particularly when the conversation revolves around topics that I find uninteresting or unimportant, like government politics, tribal discussions, or matters lacking value or human benefit.

Tip #5: What Are Your Previous Careers?

Reflecting on your past, have you ever engaged in any career such as business, preaching, teaching, etc.? How did you initiate that career path? Was it a personal choice, or were you compelled by external forces or circumstances?

Being honest with yourself while answering these questions can lead to greater self-discovery. Sometimes, we are driven to undertake tasks that we may not enjoy, but they can inadvertently shape our careers. Take hunting, for instance; it wasn’t considered a career, yet I excelled at it, even outperforming others my age.

Money serves as a powerful motivator, prompting us to undertake tasks we might not enjoy, simply to earn a living. However, these endeavors can lead to wonderful experiences and potentially rewarding careers. If you’ve willingly left a career, it could imply a lack of enjoyment. Conversely, being dismissed presents a different scenario; one might still harbor affection for the job or career.

The terms ‘careers’ and ‘jobs’ are often used interchangeably, though they have distinct meanings. On a personal note, I have worked both as a teacher and a health worker. My passion for teaching endures, which fuels my continued writing, despite the abundance of books and articles already available.

Currently, I have left my job in healthcare, which was my preferred career after roles in preaching and motivational speaking. I once constructed grass-thatched houses to earn a living, but I no longer pursue this, although the skill remains with me. Fishing was a pastime I enjoyed, but now, living about three miles from the river, I no longer consider it. Instead, my time is spent extensively using a computer or phone.

Tip #6: What Are Your Current Careers?

Asking what someone does for a living may seem unusual in South Sudan, as well as in many African countries, because of the collectivist philosophy that “I am because you are, and you are because I am,” as Prof. John Mbiti articulated. This perspective emphasizes living for one another, diminishing the need for individual striving. However, this post will explore ten essential self-discovery tips and tricks to master.

Yet, the pace of change is swift. If one is not vigilant, they might awaken to a society where communal bonds have weakened, overtaken by the ideologies, doctrines, beliefs, teachings, and practices of individualism.

I am a teacher who imparts knowledge through content writing and sharing. I engage in one-on-one teaching, particularly with young individuals interested in subjects like technology, self-discovery, self-improvement, and writing.

Additionally, I am a preacher known to be an excellent speaker. This is the feedback I’ve received since I began preaching in Mayom Village in 1998.

My teaching areas include theology (Biblical & Theological Courses), technology (computer and internet usage), career exploration and development (self-discovery and self-improvement), and languages (English, Nuer, and Dinka), among others.

I teach almost everything I know and am passionate about. However, there are topics I know but am less interested in, such as government politics and other leadership courses and practices.

My primary income comes from IT consultancy, including website design and maintenance. I also work as a coordinator for community development and social services in South Sudan with the Faith Evangelical Baptist Church.

From 2010 to 2016, I taught theological and IT students at Emanuel Christian College (ECC) in Yei, South Sudan. I have also conducted academic orientation courses for students eager to learn how to write academic papers, ranging from assignments to dissertation papers.

Tip #7: What Do You Want to Do In The Future?

Discussing future career plans may seem unusual in South Sudan, where the future often unfolds on its own. However, I believe planning is crucial.

Adopting planning, a concept from the West, is beneficial. Admittedly, it’s challenging for me to manage time or remember my children’s birthdays, as these concepts are relatively new to us. My birth date is unknown, so asking my father his age would be futile—he wouldn’t understand the question.

For me, the future is the present. I aim to enhance my teaching skills and become a better educator. I aspire to elevate my writing career to the level of an internationally acclaimed author and become a motivational authority in my region.

I aim to assist individuals in recognizing their true selves, rather than longing to be someone they are not and will never be. I desire for my students to experience joy and happiness in their lives, despite the world’s troubles, because I believe we are meant to live fully, even amidst challenges.

As for the future, it’s not about me. While I enjoy sharing my aspirations, the focus is on you.

Considering a career is among the top ten self-discovery tips for everyone, as I am convinced that each person has a unique career path. If you’re interested in learning more about self-discovery, feel free to check out my complimentary book on the homepage: Your Self-Discovery Guide.

Tip #8: Why Did You Quit Your Previous Career(s)?

Indeed, what transpired? Why did you cease teaching at Sunday schools? Why did you stop driving those trucks? Why did you resign from being a national soldier? These are questions you can ponder in your heart. Sometimes, I’m not even sure why I resigned.

I left my position with MSF-Holland in Lankien, Jonglei area in 2003/4 due to the insecurity there. Identifying as both Nuer and Dinka, it was perilous for me to stay in that region at the time. Indeed, certain circumstances compel us to leave our current job or career and embark on a new one.

However, I never tire of teaching, nor do I ever abandon it, as it accompanies me wherever life takes me. Once more, why did you resign? Contemplate this before responding, even if you understand the reasons. This message is intended to encourage deeper self-reflection before self-improvement.

Bear in mind, it’s quite normal for humans to engage in multiple careers throughout their lifetime. Now, let’s consider the primary motivation behind every career, the authentic you.

Tip #9: What Is Your Life’s Ultimate Goal or Purpose?

For me, teaching is often seen as the ultimate goal and purpose. However, my reason for teaching is more profound; it’s to impart knowledge and experiences before my time is up. Knowing your life’s definite purpose allows you to utilize the self-discovery tips and tricks shared in this post. I teach to assist others in understanding who they are and how they can improve, all in pursuit of a peaceful and meaningful life.

What about you?

Your smaller daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly goals should all align with your life’s main goal—your ultimate purpose. Indeed, no one possesses all the best self-discovery tips because what’s effective varies from person to person.

This is about embracing your natural self, not what you aspire to become. While wishes are not inherently negative, they remain just that—wishes.

It may seem disheartening to hear that you cannot be something you’re not by nature, but that is the reality. Our nature isn’t altered by our knowledge, which is why education merely enhances us rather than transforming us. What are your thoughts on these self-discovery tips?

Tip #10: What Are Your Wildest Dreams?

Before confusion sets in, understand that your wildest dreams may not materialize unless they are in harmony with your life’s ultimate goal or purpose, as mentioned earlier. However, this doesn’t imply that you should not have dreams beyond your life’s objective. Remember, these are my top tips for self-discovery. The optimal approach is to employ any self-discovery tips and techniques you can find, including those available online and on this site.

Now, regarding those wildest dreams—if you lack one, make it a point to envision one immediately. As previously stated, planning is beneficial, even though the future is uncertain. We can’t predict what the next second, minute, or hour holds, can we?

Who could have anticipated what 2020 had in store for us? I doubt any of us expected to lose our loved ones to COVID-19 or to witness its widespread adverse effects. Nevertheless, I maintain that these self-discovery tips are the way forward.

I harbor the grand ambition of being remembered as one of the greatest motivational authors to have ever lived, crafting content grounded in facts and practical lessons rather than mere wishes. My goal is not just to persuade you to be your best but to inspire you to take actions that truly lead you to become your best. Can you perceive the distinction?

I’ve embarked on a journey of self-discovery and improvement, and I’m eager to share some proven tips with you. While these tips may not work for everyone as they did for me, they could provide you with some insight. Thank you for reading the ’10 Best Self-Discovery Tips for All Human Beings.’ I hope you found the article beneficial. If so, I’d love to hear your thoughts on the self-discovery tips discussed. If not, please feel free to leave a comment below. Feel free to like, share, or rate this post as well.

In my view, theology, language, computers, and career development are vital tools at our disposal, which we should utilize before it’s too late. My teaching aims to inform, instruct, and educate. Can you see it? My primary goal is to impart true knowledge to you, including self-discovery and improvement tips, how to use tools like language and computers, among others.

“10 Best Self-Improvement Tips” is an article that outlines the top practices for self-enhancement. It is important to remember that self-improvement follows self-discovery. Self-discovery is not about attempting or desiring to be someone you are not; rather, it is an exploration into your authentic self, which is innate. Consider these 10 top self-improvement tips that could assist in enhancing your inherent qualities.

Tip #1: Improve Your Identity

Accepting your true identity, the real you, begins with self-discovery. Recognizing who you are is distinct from longing to be someone you’re not. We may not be able to change our nature, but we can certainly improve ourselves. This is the first of many self-improvement tips and tricks shared in this article.

Self-improvement commences when you embrace yourself as you are and strive for betterment. This article aims to assist you in accepting yourself as a precursor to further self-improvement.

Accepting ourselves as we are can be challenging, yet it is a crucial step towards self-improvement. If we don’t accept our bodies, thoughts, words, and actions, how can we expect others to? Consider whether you’re content with your physical appearance; if not, explore why and what steps you could take to enhance it. How can you apply the advice from these self-improvement tips and tricks?

It is highly recommended that you accept and love yourself as you are, for that is your essence—the very reason these self-improvement tips were written is to help you enhance your discovered self.

Tip #2: Improve Your Physical Body

Investing in your physical body means taking action to improve your health, appearance, and well-being. You don’t necessarily need to purchase expensive clothing to look good; caring for the clothes you have can still make you look fantastic.

Tend to your hair, shoes, and attire. It doesn’t have to break the bank, especially if funds are limited, but even a small investment in your physical self is beneficial, right? Eating well, exercising, working, and playing games are all activities that benefit your mind. Sometimes, it’s also necessary to sit and converse with others, which is excellent for managing stress and similar concerns.

I believe that in the West, people may not socialize as much nowadays for various valid reasons. However, I consider social life to be invaluable, irreplaceable even. We are social beings by nature, regardless of whether we (you and I) might be introverts.

Engage in daily activities that promote health, generate income, and foster friendships. It’s achievable. Invest in your physical needs, and by extension, other aspects of yourself, because you encompass more than just a physical entity.

Tip #3: Improve Your Self-Education

Self-education is a component of both self-improvement and self-discovery. It can aid in uncovering your true self, purpose, and identity. Reflecting on my own experience, life before learning to read and write was vastly different from life after gaining those skills.

Indeed, reading is a proven pathway to modern education and the contemporary world. If you’re reading this, you understand the significance. Those who cannot read or write are unable to access this information, whereas you can because you possess these skills in English.

Commit to your self-education. Your phone alone offers numerous avenues for learning new skills. Discover the methods that work best for you. Self-learning comes in various formats and techniques, including videos and texts, as well as interactive content available both online and offline.

Leverage the learning tools and methods available to you to enhance yourself. Education isn’t confined to the classroom; it can occur anywhere and at any time. With the advent of technology and the availability of internet access, the world now revels in this empowerment.

Tip #4: Improve Your Finances

Learning how to budget and save money in a way that makes it less accessible for impulsive use is crucial. Numerous online platforms offer valuable tips on money-making and investment strategies. Remember, saving is just the start of accumulating wealth; investing wisely in avenues that yield future returns is key. However, be cautious of scammers.

The amount you earn, whether it’s monthly, weekly, or daily, is less important than how you manage it. Many expenses demand our money, but not all are necessary. This is the fourth tip in a series of self-improvement strategies.

Numerous entities claim expertise in investment as a path to riches. Yet, navigating the business world is challenging, and there’s a risk of financial loss. Persistence is essential; if one opportunity doesn’t pan out, continue searching for the right investment that aligns with your goals.

Tip #5: Improve Your Family

Investing in your family can create immense enjoyment and excitement for oneself. However, this may not hold true for everyone, as we all have different dispositions. Nevertheless, family remains a substantial investment. Spend time with your spouse, children, or relatives and friends.

Balancing individualistic and collectivist perspectives and practices is essential. In Western societies, there is a tendency to perceive everyone as possessing an individualistic personality and views. It’s important to remember that this is the fifth point in the series of self-improvement tips and tricks.

While individualism can lead to positive outcomes like hard work and personal achievements, it also has dangerous aspects such as depression and bitterness, which can result in suicide and other personal crimes driven by loneliness. Research into countries with the highest rates of suicide and mental health issues often reveals that Western nations are significantly affected, a situation linked to the culture of individualism, its beliefs, and practices. Similarly, collectivism comes with its own set of problems, including a lack of personal ambition and direction, leading to aimlessness and a lack of future planning. Therefore, a balance between these two extremes is necessary.

Tip #6: Improve Your Retirement Plans

Indeed, youth is not eternal; I wish it were. Aging is an inevitable process for all humans and other animal species; we age daily. This is the sixth installment in the series of self-improvement tips and tricks. I hope you find it beneficial. What’s your retirement plan? In some places, like South Sudan, there was no retirement plan for government workers at the time of writing, but that doesn’t prevent you from having one.

Even as a self-employed individual, a retirement plan is essential. Despite the uncertainty of the future, it’s crucial to prepare in advance. I had to plan to write this article and schedule its publication for a specific date and time. The concept of planning may be unfamiliar to many in South Sudan, yet it’s a valuable skill to learn and implement.

In Arabic, the language spoken in Sudan and South Sudan, we refer to retirement as ‘Maaj.’ However, at the time of writing, there was no established plan for retiring army generals. The generals who should be retired are still active on the front lines. Many entrepreneurs aim to retire early, before age catches up with them, striving for financial independence as soon as possible. What steps are you taking or planning for your retirement?

Tip #7: Improve Your Self-Esteem

Self-improvement encompasses both the physical and spiritual aspects, impacting your entire being in various ways. Both low and high self-esteem, whether negative or positive, are crucial. To better yourself, it’s essential to boost your self-esteem and perception of yourself. Revisit the first tip in this post and consider if you can embrace any aspect of yourself that you find challenging to accept. Reflect on this.

Consider individuals who lack limbs yet might be the happiest people you’ll ever meet. Are you acquainted with someone like this? Or what about those who have been blind since birth? To elevate your self-esteem, focus on recognizing and appreciating your positives, your talents, or areas where you excel beyond others. Whatever activity brings you joy could be your source of strength, empowerment, and happiness.

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Reflect on the positive events in your life and allow yourself to feel joy and happiness. Keep in mind that happiness doesn’t just occur; it’s a conscious decision. You have the power to choose joy, even in the most challenging circumstances. This is tip number seven in the series of self-improvement tips and tricks.

Tip #8: Improve Your Spiritual Body

Now is the time to invest in your spiritual self. Your spiritual self encompasses your inner being, mind, thoughts, and dreams. It’s everything within you—referred to as the heart, soul, or spirit—that constitutes the spiritual you, the true you, to be frank.

Indeed, even atheists acknowledge the existence of a spiritual aspect. However, they might opt for different terminology since ‘spiritual’ or ‘the spiritual world’ has been associated with religion or philosophy for an extended period. Most people have their own philosophies, which they hold in higher regard than the thoughts and judgments of others. This is tip #8 in the self-improvement tips and tricks series in this post.

Investing in your spiritual self can be achieved by engaging with spiritual texts, such as the Bible or the Quran, and by praying or conversing with God or oneself. It’s beneficial to spend time in self-reflection and to ponder profound questions like “What is my purpose?” This introspection can lead to a positive outlook, focusing on the good rather than the bad. It’s about entering a state of bliss and joy that is accessible only internally, through your spiritual self or your ‘third eye,’ if you will.

The ‘third eye’ is a metaphorical concept that can be ‘opened’ through dedicated meditation. Meditation transcends religion; it’s about connecting with your inner self, your essence, or with a higher power. Consider what steps you are taking to nurture your spiritual self.

Exploring this subject could enhance your comprehension of your software, spiritual being, mind, soul, and spirit. There is much to discuss regarding our spiritual selves, perhaps in a future article. For the moment, consider reflecting on and actively pursuing ways to develop or enhance your spiritual self. Activities like singing, meditating, spending time alone, among others, might assist in finding what resonates with you.

Tip #9: Improve Your Abilities

Indeed, acknowledging your capabilities is a form of strength. It’s clear that humans often overlook the joy in everyday things, which drives our desire for new experiences, such as watching new movies instead of the same old ones repeatedly.

We are drawn to ponder the improbable, the contrary, the negative, and our past failures rather than recognizing our achievements and abilities. Yet, I urge you to embrace your capabilities. Accept that you have the potential to accomplish whatever you believe you can, without any excuses.

This doesn’t negate the existence of past, present, or potential near-future failures; rather, it suggests shifting focus from the path of failure to the positives, if only momentarily.

Consider this: I can craft compelling content. I can handle the uploading process myself; there’s no need to seek assistance from others. I can manage the expenses for my files and documents. I can cover the costs for my domain name, among other things.

Observe, I am capable. I can accomplish all these tasks independently. I can embrace joy and happiness even amidst South Sudan’s challenges. I can inspire others to live their best lives here and now, for this may be our only opportunity. The future is uncertain, but we are aware of the present, so let’s savor what we possess. Let’s find delight in our abilities.

I am aware of who I am: a child of God, cherished and nurtured (John 1:12-13; 2 Corinthians 5:17). I also understand that everything on earth and in heaven is mine (1 Corinthians 3:21). Most importantly, I am confident that I can accomplish all things through God’s strength within me (Philippians 4:13).

These are my affirmations, and I hope you recognize your own identity, capabilities, and possessions. Such awareness is crucial for self-improvement because it helps us understand our current position and our next direction. Embrace your talents, but don’t stop there; enhance them. Acquire new skills and practice consistently. After all, practice leads to perfection.

Tip #10: Improve Your Possessions

Finally, this concludes the list of the top ten self-improvement tips and tricks for you. These are the ten most valuable self-improvement suggestions for every individual, including you! Improving your lot means embracing what you already possess before longing for what you don’t have yet.

Remember, these are merely tips, not laws or commandments to follow or obey, though they may prove beneficial for anyone willing to apply them. I adhere to these principles, and if you’re curious why my life is filled with bliss, embrace this guidance and you too can experience the same sense of joy and peace, even amidst the challenges of our times and the world.

Embrace your possessions, cherish what you have, and don’t dismiss your belongings, for someone out there may long for them. You might not realize how wealthy and fortunate you are in comparison to others around you.

This doesn’t imply you shouldn’t seek to increase your resources, like money, but rather to find contentment in what you possess. Fretting over insufficient resources and wealth is as detrimental as coveting what isn’t yours, fostering envy and jealousy. As it’s often said, “It’s better to be happy that your cup is half full than to worry that it’s half empty,” which is a sentiment I share.

Do not settle for less; avoid yearning for what belongs to another. Strive for what you desire, and once you attain it, be content and joyful. These are not mandates, but rather personal guidance for you and, of course, for myself as well.

If you find these self-improvement suggestions valuable, feel free to share your views. Your thoughts on the self-improvement tips and strategies discussed in this post would be greatly appreciated.