Learn Sociology and How to Socialize Safely
Welcome aboard! This article is designed to deepen our understanding of sociology and its importance in our personal and professional growth. We will delve into this frequently underestimated field and uncover the individual benefits it offers. Let’s begin!
What Is Sociology?
Many modern English dictionaries, both online and offline, offer good definitions of sociology. However, sociology primarily examines human social life, social behavior, and the process of socialization. Socializing involves spending time in a group of people. Naturally, ‘too much’ time in a crowd varies from person to person; what may be excessive for one might not be for another.
Most individuals feel energized when they spend time with others or in large groups. Conversely, some prefer solitude, taking time to reflect and engage in activities alone. Many writers and creatives often favor privacy. They may find being in crowds draining, as they tend to avoid the ‘energy vampires’ that can be present in larger groups.
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Do You Love Being with Many People?
This is indeed a personal question. The answer varies based on your current phase in the journey of self-discovery and self-improvement. Discovering and gradually enhancing both your personal and professional life takes time. For many, as mentioned, social gatherings are ideal. Yet, for some, including myself, they are the least desirable places to be.
Where do you stand on this? Do you enjoy being in large groups? What are your feelings about being alone? Do you prefer working in a team or by yourself? These are significant questions that only you can answer, in your own way. Honesty with yourself is crucial as you respond to them. Your answers will navigate you through this journey, as understanding your personality type is essential.
Do You Want to Learn about Being with Many People?
If you’re like me, you might occasionally ponder the idea of learning to live amidst a crowd. It’s a thoughtful consideration. Being part of a crowd can be beneficial, but it’s important to reflect on this first. It largely hinges on your personality type. It’s not something that can be forced. Understanding what you enjoy and the reasons behind it is crucial.
Personally, I have valid reasons for not staying in a crowd for more than an hour. I tend to feel increasingly drained, especially when surrounded by conversations on topics that hold little interest for me, such as current global events and government politics. Politics is a ubiquitous topic, yet discussions on government politics are something I steer clear of.
I have a passion for discussing actions I can take myself. I prefer action over anticipation. Complaining about things beyond my control is something I detest. It’s far better to voice concerns to the appropriate people at the opportune moment, rather than airing grievances to an unsuitable audience at an inopportune time. That’s just how I am.
Why Is Social Life Important?
Although I don’t personally enjoy being in a crowd, I believe that social life is essential; otherwise, we wouldn’t be here today. We are born and raised within a society, which greatly contributes to shaping our identities. Living in a society has many benefits, even if we also value spending time alone, engaging in thought or pursuing activities we love.
Social settings can serve as environments for learning. They may offer opportunities to learn about oneself, spirituality, humanity, and the wider natural world. They can also be hubs for news and the exchange of ideas.
Yet, crowded places often aren’t conducive to deep thought. Critical thinking and imagination can be challenging in a crowd, where individual thoughts may merge, making it difficult to discern one’s own ideas from the collective.
This suggests that there are advantages and disadvantages to being part of a society or group. As the scriptures say, there is a season for everything: a time to be with others and a time to be alone. Use solitude to harness creativity and crowds to enhance your social learning.
Finding a balance is key, and I suggest dedicating most of your time to work or study rather than to crowds. I prefer to share ideas through writing, like in this article—it’s part of who I am. I’ve embraced this aspect of myself. Being shy in crowds hinders my ability to speak out.
Your Personal and Professional Development
Social life and the study of sociology are integral to personal and professional development. Indeed, they offer numerous benefits. It is often said that one can learn more about oneself, divinity, humanity, and other beings through social interactions. However, one might wonder if books alone could suffice for such learning.
Personal development encompasses a journey from self-discovery to self-improvement, while professional development spans from career discovery to career enhancement. You cannot improve what you are unaware of or do not possess. To truly understand “YOU” is to uncover what makes you unique, distinct, and special compared to others, including your family and relatives.
There are three aspects of self that you should be aware of: your abilities, possessions, and identity. It’s important to remember that you have a singular identity, which is not your ID card, but rather what distinguishes you from others. Your personality type and identity determine your abilities.
Reflecting on my thoughts from 30/03/2022, I realized that although I did not know how to ride a motorcycle or drive a car, I believed I could excel as a driver or motorcyclist. I even envisioned myself as an outstanding Boeing pilot for South Sudan Airlines, SSA, because my personality aligns with such roles and responsibilities.
Summary
In summary, we’ve explored the meaning of sociology and its impact on our lives, both individually and collectively. We’ve recognized that from birth to the present, society shapes us, and it will continue to do so. Yet, our personalities vary; some thrive in the company of others, while some flourish in solitude. Such is the essence of life.
Understanding whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert can aid in your journey of self-discovery and self-improvement, contributing to both personal and professional growth. Engaging with articles and books like this one is a great starting point. I trust you’ve found this article beneficial. Your thoughts are welcome in the comment section below. Shalom!
Further Readings
- Sociology—Wikipedia.
- What is Sociology?—The UNC.
- What is Sociology?—Case Western Reserve University.